<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Hard Truths To Myself ]]></title><description><![CDATA[Hard Truths To Mysel]]></description><link>https://www.thevirgoindex.com/my-blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2026 04:23:41 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.thevirgoindex.com/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Learning to Float]]></title><description><![CDATA[I’ve been swimming for days now in this ocean of chaos, trying to keep my head above water long enough to write something new. But with every attempt, I hit blank after blank. Yesterday, I told myself I’d face my own mess, but here I am again, anchoring myself in someone else’s pain and problems. What is it that I’m so afraid of? What have I been avoiding this past month? Am I avoiding... myself? To the people I help, I’m the heroic, strong woman who’s always there to save the day. But what...]]></description><link>https://www.thevirgoindex.com/post/learning-to-float</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6761cd8a3c1fd87534728114</guid><pubDate>Tue, 17 Dec 2024 19:18:35 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/ee87bd_f4fc57bbb56d4ae68603ef96eef72c2e~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Danaya </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Unlocking Freedom]]></title><description><![CDATA[When the universe wants to send you a message, it will. It doesn’t matter if it’s through a random encounter, a fleeting moment, or a full-on experience—it’ll find a way to get your attention. My personal favorite is when I meet someone I’m only meant to talk to for five minutes, but they leave a permanent imprint on my heart. That’s exactly what happened to me recently while I was working as a flight attendant. An elderly lady complimented my hair, and what should have been a quick exchange...]]></description><link>https://www.thevirgoindex.com/post/unlocking-freedom</link><guid isPermaLink="false">674e16deda14b6ae7aaa9dd7</guid><pubDate>Mon, 02 Dec 2024 20:25:13 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/ee87bd_2a561df3e5924397b36e0bc959940d46~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Danaya </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Trapped Butterfly]]></title><description><![CDATA[When I was a young girl, if someone would have asked me where I saw myself living as an adult, my answer would have been...]]></description><link>https://www.thevirgoindex.com/post/trapped-butterfly</link><guid isPermaLink="false">673bb183f644b48ede0a39f3</guid><pubDate>Mon, 18 Nov 2024 21:35:02 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/ee87bd_15da5104955f47499816203a9a08d656~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Danaya </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[So, You Need Some Help With Your Inner Work...]]></title><description><![CDATA[Someone asked me to write about the different tools and affordable resources that have helped me along my inner work journey, and...]]></description><link>https://www.thevirgoindex.com/post/so-you-need-some-help-with-your-inner-work</link><guid isPermaLink="false">67293882d0586acb7816d590</guid><pubDate>Mon, 04 Nov 2024 21:18:48 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/ee87bd_19212361e47a4e939615951cb3f1735b~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Danaya </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Daddy Wounds - Part 1]]></title><description><![CDATA[The other day, my aunt and I were catching up on life and she asked how things were going with my dad. I hate these conversations because...]]></description><link>https://www.thevirgoindex.com/post/daddywounds</link><guid isPermaLink="false">66b503641a54bb44e6ece500</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Aug 2024 17:47:57 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/ee87bd_4764ad2f24e047eea7e76c8bc921799f~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Danaya </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Eldest Daughter]]></title><description><![CDATA[Today I woke up tired of being the eldest daughter. The many hats that come with this role is fucking exhausting and...]]></description><link>https://www.thevirgoindex.com/post/the-eldest-daughter</link><guid isPermaLink="false">66b4f6b73f3aa517bdb141f0</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Aug 2024 16:59:53 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/ee87bd_922ea3cf0d8f4d858ed22396559938fa~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Danaya </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Mental Prisons]]></title><description><![CDATA[I feel myself becoming brave enough to break free from the mental prisons I’ve put myself in...]]></description><link>https://www.thevirgoindex.com/post/mentalprisons</link><guid isPermaLink="false">66b4e89cdb16ce9b67c4f7a3</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Aug 2024 16:04:43 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/ee87bd_dc5e2fc14b1c457e965a861f1644af66~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Danaya </dc:creator></item></channel></rss>